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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-06-30 06:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #6751 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6751 ⌋

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[personal profile] fscom 2025-06-30 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
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Question

(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Curious how many FSers are trans or identify as nonbinary.

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I generally call myself genderqueer or genderfluid if forced to have a label.

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
AFAB & identify as female

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think of myself as any gender, and just go along with whatever cause it's easier. I guess that makes me non-binary or something, but I just don't care about it. At all.

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Nonbinary here. What flavor of nonbinary tends to fluctuate.

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
transdude post-top-surgery. I'm also over 50. I wish I could say I have zero fucks on trans issues in fandom but sadly I have to have a few thanks to being fetishized irl to my face.

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
total cissy here (am female)

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Genderfluid with a baseline of agender most of the time.

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I once said that if I could choose my sex at birth it definitely wouldn't be the one I ended up with and someone said that sounds like I'm trans. But I disagreed because I don't care enough to do anything about it. Like if there were a magic button that could 100% change my gender I'd hit it without a thought, but irl? Don't care.

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
agender, which is a kind of nonbinary/genderfluid label. afab

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(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes I call myself trans because of my connections to the trans community and because I have similar problems in that transphobia affects me and I use trans healthcare. Explaining my whole situation is too complicated and boring, I have a medical thing where transition was just the path that made most sense to me, since I don't care what gender people think I am.

I don't really identify as trans though and a lot of trans community stuff or trans experiences are very unrelatable for me.

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(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Cis woman and happy to be considered as such but I also don’t think about my gender identity much at all for the most part. I’m just me.

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(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
On one hand that's more than I expected, on the other impossible to tell proportionally ig since it feels a little weird to reply here saying you're not

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(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
I'm nonbinary, would generally say like, genderfluid or androgyne to people who ask for further detail. Also transsexual, have been on hrt for like 10 years and had a couple surgeries. (Specifying only bc people sometimes assume nonbinary and medically transitioning are mutually exclusive. Not assuming bad intent but the way the question is worded "are trans or identify as nonbinary" sounds like it might be doing that.)

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(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
More of a cis woman or agender I guess. I don't feel connected to being a woman. I would like not to be seen as one (but it can be body image issues). But also I am absolutely not a man

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(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
Trans guy, been frequenting FS since before I figured all that out.

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(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 06:06 am (UTC)(link)
I'm agender. Sometimes I prefer to say nonbinary depending on my mood. The former is just a subset of the latter to me. (Yes I know some people don't feel the same and no I'm not here to argue.)

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(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Assuming from downthread that you also want to hear from FSers who aren't, hi.

Gender stereotypes have little relevance to my life, but it's always been clear to me (and everyone else) that my body is female. I wasn't thrilled to develop curves and periods as a teenager, but mainly because there was nothing adults did with themselves that I was eager to become a part of. And IME, it hasn't been bad: I still engage with fandom, and it's not like someone will come try to remove your vagina just because you wear pants and the face you were born with indefinitely, instead of putting on makeup and dresses.

I do feel bad for men who worry they'll be humiliated or attacked if they wear bright colors, grow their hair out, or paint their fingernails, but I just see that as a reason to challenge sex-based pigeonholing of people.

Motivation

(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
What type of motivation works for you?

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I am a social pressure kind of person. The only reason I finally got off my butt and emailed a few psychs and therapists is because my Dr asks if I've done it every visit and this would be the fourth time I would have had to say no and that would just be too much failure for me. I wish I had irl friends or a partner that would take an interest or just generally ask how things are, but alas I am a stereotype of the lonely nerd.

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(Anonymous) 2025-06-30 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Doing one tiny thing. It almost always snowballs. Bodies in motion etc.

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What is your most recent fandom?

(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
As in, which fandom itself is the newest, not your most recent interest.

It's been years for me, and my most recent interests keep trending towards old fandoms. Sometimes I miss being in the newer active hubub.

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tw death

(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
Anon whose dad has been in hospital this last month.

He passed away last night.

I'm still processing.

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rambling

(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
Head aches.... sinus aches... and I don't know is it allergies even though I take OTC allergy pill and nasal spray? Is it this damn hot humid weather? Is it the progesterone birth control (yay peri menopause!)?

Or do I have a brain tumor. Any of these are possibilities!