It's 100% practice. Practice brings talent, and perspective. And of the two I think it's the perspective that's harder to achieve.

Like you don't hate being bad at video games, you hate being invested enough to want to know what happens, but not invested enough to care about getting progressing. You hate that you don't get the same sense of reward from beating the challenge as you do from finding out the next part of the story. Not a judgement, btw, no matter how it sounds, that's not my meaning.

Just an assumption, but I'll tell you how I arrived at it. I LOVE Baldur's Gate 3. But I just can't, no matter what, give a shit about the 400 menu's and radial options and very detailed and nuanced and admittedly very clever control scheme. I just don't vibe on RTS stuff. Give me a list if I HAVE to have 4000 options in any moment, but I'd always rather just press a button, or a series of buttons and have it directly tied to the action.

I'm sure I could LEARN to appreciate the radial confusion... but it just loses me.